I'd like to add just a small addition to the conversation about keeping teams together and 'getting demoted' from top teams to second teams.
There has been MANY times where there was a player on the top team one year. Maybe the 9th or 10th player to fill that top team. A year passes and they were dropped down to the second team. I want to squash the stigma that its better for that player to be the 10th player on the top team vs the 1st player on the second team. Many times, that is what the player NEEDS. if he is on the second team, he will be THEE GUY. Volleyball is such a rep based sport and if you are getting more meaningful reps as the stud on a lower team, that will benefit the player in the long run.
Sure, it stinks for the parents and player, making them think they are 'not good enough'. That is absolutely not the case.
Believe me, I have seen it many times in the last few years. A few players I can think of recently were:
2019 - Nate Renneker (Moeller) Attack 15-Black to 16-Red
2020 - Ben Albers (Elder) from Attack 17-black to 18-red
2020 - David Maurer (Elder) from Attack 16-red to 17-gold
All three were the work horses for their respective 'lower' teams and improved tremendously because of it.
There are many more examples, but these just stick out in my memory.