cincifbfan
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My parents, but that's a whole other ton of issues lolwho invites guests to a meal and then starts eating without them?
My parents, but that's a whole other ton of issues lolwho invites guests to a meal and then starts eating without them?
This is the location: https://olhsc.org/It sounds like the retreat was at the nuns' convent?
Yes. Everything in our parish family is unorganized and much of it is, in fact, bizarre.Why in the world did they even need nuns there? This confirmation retreat FMHE put together seems kind of bizarre and very unorganized on the surface.
Where were they supposed to meet "The Bus". Since this is the Family of the Most Holy Eucharist. I see it is Our Lady of Lourdes, St Aloysius Gonzaga, St Antoninus, St Catharine of Sienna, St Martin of Tours. You said that St Antoninus was not involved.Yep, I found a lot of this too. And it wasn’t even the kids’ fault for accidentally being late. They were told to meet the bus between 7:30 and 7:45. The buffoons planning this knew Mass was at 8.I can’t wait for an explanation.
Pastor ambition.This disorganized mess is what happens when you try to run 5 churches, 4 of which have schools, at once. No other family of parishes in the area has that many churches and schools. The other family of 5 churches has only 2 schools, and they are also keeping a lot of things independent and separate between the schools because this is what happens when you try to coordinate and combine. It is the same situation with Westside Catholic. All 4 of those churches have schools, and they haven't had these sorts of issues. Why did FMHE feel the need to combine the confirmation program in the first place? That family has just done things way too quickly and aggressively, and we are seeing the fallout of that right now.
To compound the issue about donations, I'm willing to bet most people may want to start scaling those donations back for fear that they'll be donating to a "lost cause" if you will. Why donate to something that has a chance to close down despite those donations.At what point, especially in light of the admonishing for not donating enough AND upping donation requests frequency, do the people say enough is enough and stop donating all together and/or pull their kids out?
It seems the parishes members’ voices aren’t getting to and/or falling on deaf leadership and administration ears. The only other way to get through it seems would be speaking dollars and cents.
I cut my weekly donation in half last year when Fr. Matt announced he'd be available less as he pursues a graduate degree. I still donate my time to the kids in athletics and to the school. And I donate to help pay sports registration fees to school families who struggle to pay.At what point, especially in light of the admonishing for not donating enough AND upping donation requests frequency, do the people say enough is enough and stop donating all together and/or pull their kids out?
It seems the parishes members’ voices aren’t getting to and/or falling on deaf leadership and administration ears. The only other way to get through it seems would be speaking dollars and cents.
Yes, I struggle with this.And yet if donations go down, that’s all the excuse the archdiocese needs to close a church and/or school. A priest said as much during mass at the beginnings of Beacons of Light.
Speaking of FMHE incompetence, we just received an email tonight from the director of facilities asking us when our first fish fry is … five days before Lent begins and a week before the first fish fry at three FMHE parishes.
Keep in mind, he approved the facilities requests. He is a director at a Catholic parish family and doesn’t know Lent is a few days away.
Of all the morons in the FMHE administration, he is the worst.
A big part of the stated justification for Beacons of Light were the declines in stats like weekly mass attendance, school enrollment, sacraments received, ordinations to the priesthood, etc. but the timeline given fell within Schnurr’s tenure as archbishop.At the end of the day, I'm just hopeful we have a solid bishop coming in. Schnurr was incompetent in every way possible and that has leaked down into the parishes. His legacy will be dwindling attendance and participation, along with some PR night mares for the church.
In their defense, I just learned a few years ago that Ash Wednesday not a holy day of obligation.We had a church secretary and a teacher at the school not know that Solemnity of Mary is a Holy Day of Obligation.
Yep. And it's ... going about how you would expect something he helms to go.A big part of the stated justification for Beacons of Light were the declines in stats like weekly mass attendance, school enrollment, sacraments received, ordinations to the priesthood, etc. but the timeline given fell within Schnurr’s tenure as archbishop.
I took a second look at the numbers and thought to myself that any in almost any other organization imaginable losing that many of your “customers” would have resulted in a firing years prior. Instead of being relieved of his position and giving his office to someone who’d attempt to turn the tide, Schnurr was able to embark on the most significant overhaul of the archdiocese of Cincinnati in its over 200 year history. A change that is designed to not only make permanent the decline he oversaw but to accelerate it.
You mean poorly communicated and without a clear plan?Yep. And it's ... going about how you would expect something he helms to go.
That's putting it about as nicely as one could.You mean poorly communicated and without a clear plan?
I totally agree with your last two sentences. FMHE has rushed to combine pretty much everything unlike the other parish families and it sounds like it’s become one huge mess.This disorganized mess is what happens when you try to run 5 churches, 4 of which have schools, at once. No other family of parishes in the area has that many churches and schools. The other family of 5 churches has only 2 schools, and they are also keeping a lot of things independent and separate between the schools because this is what happens when you try to coordinate and combine. It is the same situation with Westside Catholic. All 4 of those churches have schools, and they haven't had these sorts of issues. Why did FMHE feel the need to combine the confirmation program in the first place? That family has just done things way too quickly and aggressively, and we are seeing the fallout of that right now.
Honestly, the four athletics associations are the ONLY ones doing it right. And we get yelled at all the time.I totally agree with your last two sentences. FMHE has rushed to combine pretty much everything unlike the other parish families and it sounds like it’s become one huge mess.
You are a good person, Mickey.I cut my weekly donation in half last year when Fr. Matt announced he'd be available less as he pursues a graduate degree. I still donate my time to the kids in athletics and to the school. And I donate to help pay sports registration fees to school families who struggle to pay.
My gut tells me nothing will become of th,e petition. The Archdiocese lets each Pastor run their schools however they want, even if there are glaring issues that violate Archdiocese rules. They simply say take it up with the pastor.Question on the petition - what’s next since they have 600 signatures?
There is a number of teachers who apparently are in support of it also due to the treatment of them and the administration.
My gut tells be this will end quickly unless they have a strategy to elevate in manners that will gain more interest.
That would be how it is done in my opinion as well. You do all the things you need to do, but you just do it all very efficiently that there is not a break in the natural flow of the mass while still allowing time to be invested in the mass. Standing behind the rail for communion is a nice touch that more churches with the rail should do.So went to Mass in Holy Cross in Covington today. Never been, beautiful church.
Anyways, the point of this post was the priest there totally gets it. The Mass was over in 40 minutes with nothing skipped at all. The homily was exactly what every homily should be. It related to the readings and Gospel, he related them to real life, had a touch of humor, and was done in about 7 minutes. The priest gave Communion behind the rail, but didn't force people to kneel or take it on their tongue, but some people did, which is fine by me. We said two extra prayers at the end of Mass.... prayer for vocations and Prayer to St. Michael.
It at no point felt rushed (like how Westerhoff does many times). It was engaging the entire time.
At the end of Mass he announced their schedule for Ash Wednesday, and said they'd have an "Ash Service" at noon for those who couldn't make morning or evening Mass times, and would give people plenty of time to get ashes on lunch breaks. I thought that was absolutely incredible and thoughtful of him. Afterwards he was outside mingling with the parishioners. Not the forced awkward handshake that some do.
Again, I was really impressed with the priest there, Father Trinity Knight. I really wish more would make efforts like him, it would go a LONG way in helping fix many issues in the Church and bring people back and a bring in loads of new people. This isn't rocket science Catholic Church.
He did, but it was quick, and still while the meditation song was going on.Did the priest "do the dishes?"
This seems pretty great.So went to Mass in Holy Cross in Covington today. Never been, beautiful church.
Anyways, the point of this post was the priest there totally gets it. The Mass was over in 40 minutes with nothing skipped at all. The homily was exactly what every homily should be. It related to the readings and Gospel, he related them to real life, had a touch of humor, and was done in about 7 minutes. The priest gave Communion behind the rail, but didn't force people to kneel or take it on their tongue, but some people did, which is fine by me. We said two extra prayers at the end of Mass.... prayer for vocations and Prayer to St. Michael.
It at no point felt rushed (like how Westerhoff does many times). It was engaging the entire time.
At the end of Mass he announced their schedule for Ash Wednesday, and said they'd have an "Ash Service" at noon for those who couldn't make morning or evening Mass times, and would give people plenty of time to get ashes on lunch breaks. I thought that was absolutely incredible and thoughtful of him. Afterwards he was outside mingling with the parishioners. Not the forced awkward handshake that some do.
Again, I was really impressed with the priest there, Father Trinity Knight. I really wish more would make efforts like him, it would go a LONG way in helping fix many issues in the Church and bring people back and a bring in loads of new people. This isn't rocket science Catholic Church.
So he arbitrarily decides who gets confirmed??Side note: Wish my son and his friends luck tonight as they are quizzed by Fr. Matt and he decides if they are to be confirmed next week!