I've only been a part of a program one season, in a different sport.Just curious how the HS programs in the state deliver the news, providing you have enough kids to do so? I found out over the weekend that our HS program sends the kids an email which seems rather chickenshot.
I do think that his a horseshit way to do it. Be a man, sit down and talk to them.Just curious how the HS programs in the state deliver the news, providing you have enough kids to do so? I found out over the weekend that our HS program sends the kids an email which seems rather chickenshot.
I've seen this one used across multiple sports where roster cuts in some way shape or form had to be made. Yes, it is far more humane IMO.Recently, I've seen two different approaches.
1. Bring in players individually after the end of tryout and tell them if they made the team or not. Seemed like a good idea until the cut kids had to go back into the room with the kids who made the team.
2. Each player received an envelope and instructed to open after they get into their cars or get home. The envelopes contained "Welcome to Varsity", "Welcome to JV", "Welcome to Freshmen team", or "Sorry, you did not make the team this year." A couple other paragraphs to depending on their outcome of what comes next.
Getting cut is devastating but approach #2 is much more compassionate.
Wow what a terrible example to set. coaches want kids to communicate yet can only send an email. Poor leadershipJust curious how the HS programs in the state deliver the news, providing you have enough kids to do so? I found out over the weekend that our HS program sends the kids an email which seems rather chickenshot.
We had a district athletic director maybe 10 years ago who required every sport at every school that made cuts to do exactly this.I started my career being allowed to post rosters and the kids had to wait 24 hours then they could come talk to the staff.
Then it turned into their parents being allowed to come which led for some coaches on multiple occasions needing a district administrator there for protection.
As of 2015, it was a required meeting with the player where they got a written assessment of their abilities, recommendations to improve, and other options for the sport. They had time to ask questions.
The last way was arduous, and players could opt out, but I will say it made me more understanding of the plight of a cut kid. They gave it their all for three-four-five days, they should get a few minutes of your time.
The hard part was when you had way more kids than spots and you had to be creative when telling a kid who had dozens of things holding him back why he didnt make it.
I actually didn't mind it. I was a bit notetaker anyway, and being able to articulate this information made me better with articulation to the actual team.We had a district athletic director maybe 10 years ago who required every sport at every school that made cuts to do exactly this.
The only positive I see from an email is if it comes later, after a face-to-face, and it spells out what the boy needs to work on to improve if he's coming back to try again next year. I would imagine kids being angry or rattled and therefore maybe not retaining the details of a verbally-delivered player evaluation in one hearing.Just curious how the HS programs in the state deliver the news, providing you have enough kids to do so? I found out over the weekend that our HS program sends the kids an email which seems rather chickenshot.
I like it.I've only been a part of a program one season, in a different sport.
End of practice ready to do conditioning. Coach states when I tap your shoulder...run halfway laps.
Those he did not tap he spoke to in private as we all ran out arses off.
The least common denominator parents must be a real joy, huh ? I've always heard parental grumblings of favoritism, for a full range of theories from maybe to delusional, at cuts or V/JV assignments, but thankfully all the really nutty parents have been on the other foul line.We had a district athletic director maybe 10 years ago who required every sport at every school that made cuts to do exactly this.
I've only done it face to face and I spoke with each student-athlete, both the ones that were kept and those that weren't. We also never ended tryouts until we had a day or two outside.The only positive I see from an email is if it comes later, after a face-to-face, and it spells out what the boy needs to work on to improve if he's coming back to try again next year. I would imagine kids being angry or rattled and therefore maybe not retaining the details of a verbally-delivered player evaluation in one hearing.
But "Go home and we'll email you whether to return tomorrow"? That's a punk move in my book. That goes against everything "baseball" from every coach in my kids' past experinces that I value. The good coaches taught the boys to speak to umpires and each other respectfully. Don't have your Daddy advocate for you, look me in the eye and speak your piece. Man-style.
That has to be a two-way street, right ?
This is interesting. Can I ask why?I've only done it face to face and I spoke with each student-athlete, both the ones that were kept and those that weren't. We also never ended tryouts until we had a day or two outside.
I wasn't being critical of the email, to each their own. Just curious what other programs did. Back when i played it was a sheet on the bulletin board. I always thought the effort of showing up for workouts demanded more than a sheet of paper with names on it and yes my name was not on it as a freshman.
Me, at the risk of sounding like a jerk, I have to say that myself, my siblings, and my offspring have never been cut. I honestly never paid much attention from that perspective. In coaching, I’ve always been the assistant because I never wanted to get in the first line of communication with other parents, and only wanted to help kids improve, and that was almost always in a no-cut situation anyway. My experience is kind of limited, but I can imagine how I’d feel if I had struggled athletically, because I’ve had other personal struggles of my own.I've only done it face to face and I spoke with each student-athlete, both the ones that were kept and those that weren't. We also never ended tryouts until we had a day or two outside.
I wasn't being critical of the email, to each their own. Just curious what other programs did. Back when i played it was a sheet on the bulletin board. I always thought the effort of showing up for workouts demanded more than a sheet of paper with names on it and yes my name was not on it as a freshman.
It always amazes me when parents feel that the dynamics of summer baseball should be imposed universally onto school ball.Buddy coaches one of the more successful local programs. He has three really good classes in a row at the moment and cuts were difficult. He actually cut kids who would have started and excelled on his team just five years ago. However, with more talent comes more egos and more crazy arse dads. He brings in two really good sophomore arms who would be instant varsity on most programs and explains how they will get a shot on varisty early, pitching wise, but since they will get limited swings due to excellent depth they will probably bounce back down to JV from time to time to get at bats. The one kid balks and says he needs to be assured a varsity spot full-time or he transfers. I'd a flipped the desk and made a scene. My buddy handled it well, talked to the crazy dad and the kid the next day and calmer heads prevailed.
I feel for any baseball coach in today's world. The majority of dads are swing doctors and pitching gurus. In talking to some local coaches they will tell you that they do not even work with certain kids on mechanics because it is a waste of time. These are the kids looking at dad in the on deck circle and getting pitching tips from him between innings.
Bingo, and they compete with their summer baseball teammates in terms of "who is better." Since most HS programs are not equal a better kid might be on JV or play out of position in a deeper program whereas a less talented kid might be run up to varsity as a freshman at lessor program. Is all the parents hear is "varsity" and "JV." They all want to brag to their summer ball comrade parents that their kid is killing it on "varsity."It always amazes me when parents feel that the dynamics of summer baseball should be imposed universally onto school ball.
Bingo, and they compete with their summer baseball teammates in terms of "who is better." Since most HS programs are not equal a better kid might be on JV or play out of position in a deeper program whereas a less talented kid might be run up to varsity as a freshman at lessor program. Is all the parents hear is "varsity" and "JV." They all want to brag to their summer ball comrade parents that their kid is killing it on "varsity."
When a kid plays varsity, JV or freshman has as much to do with school size, player position, who is older at his position, and team injury report as anything else "controlable", like actual player talent.Bingo, and they compete with their summer baseball teammates in terms of "who is better." Since most HS programs are not equal a better kid might be on JV or play out of position in a deeper program whereas a less talented kid might be run up to varsity as a freshman at lessor program. Is all the parents hear is "varsity" and "JV." They all want to brag to their summer ball comrade parents that their kid is killing it on "varsity."
The kicker is when the parents complain about their kid being "stuck on the JV team" and then complain when Defiance or some other powerhouse program has juniors on their JV team and it's unfair to have to play them.When a kid plays varsity, JV or freshman has as much to do with school size, player position, who is older at his position, and team injury report as anything else "controlable", like actual player talent.
That is a good policy.I agree with talking to each kid individually and really like an exit interview for each kid explaining strengths and weaknesses and what to work on in the off season.
I blame summer ball for inflating these parents/kids ego's! Summer ball is based only on ability...........to pay. It used to be about getting better and playing tough competition, but now its a dog and pony show for narcissistic parents to stunt for the 'Gram. So what we are witnessing now is some think they should automatically make the HS team because player X played travel for Y. Honestly, the problem isn't so much as making cuts, but rather how to deal with the foolishness after.It always amazes me when parents feel that the dynamics of summer baseball should be imposed universally onto school ball.
To a point, absolutely. Anyone who has been around the block a few times realizes which clubs are selective enough to be able to cull through try-outs and field consistent quality.I blame summer ball for inflating these parents/kids ego's! Summer ball is based only on ability...........to pay. It used to be about getting better and playing tough competition, but now its a dog and pony show for narcissistic parents to stunt for the 'Gram. So what we are witnessing now is some think they should automatically make the HS team because player X played travel for Y. Honestly, the problem isn't so much as making cuts, but rather how to deal with the foolishness after.
Spot on.When a kid plays varsity, JV or freshman has as much to do with school size, player position, who is older at his position, and team injury report as anything else "controlable", like actual player talent.