Baseballer1028
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Is this thread a jinx? Since posting some freshmen stats the team has lost 6 in a row and seems to have contracted the varsity's fielding problems.
I've always let the athletes in my life know, how good you become is all up to you. You are the one that has to be willing to put in the time and make the commitment. I always remind them that they will only go as far as they decide to go. Ultimately, it is their reality and responsibility to achieve their goals, not ours as parents to impose what we might think they want. The game mirrors life in so many ways, that it isn't always necessary to remind a kid how bad they are in any given game, but to relay the games experiances to life. Make them make the key decisions, how dedicated do they want to be, are they going to put in the time without complaining about not having extra free-time, is it going to affect the academics and if so is it really worth it in the long run, are they going to look to me for assistance when sitting the bench or figure out how to remedy the situation themselves? So much more than just catching or missing a ball.This is exactly what I am going through this year and what I went through last year also, she says I'm too hard on him.
I've always let the athletes in my life know, how good you become is all up to you. You are the one that has to be willing to put in the time and make the commitment. I always remind them that they will only go as far as they decide to go. Ultimately, it is their reality and responsibility to achieve their goals, not ours as parents to impose what we might think they want. The game mirrors life in so many ways, that it isn't always necessary to remind a kid how bad they are in any given game, but to relay the games experiances to life. Make them make the key decisions, how dedicated do they want to be, are they going to put in the time without complaining about not having extra free-time, is it going to affect the academics and if so is it really worth it in the long run, are they going to look to me for assistance when sitting the bench or figure out how to remedy the situation themselves? So much more than just catching or missing a ball.