I absolutely agree with you.
I have no axe to grind, but as I mentioned in the post above, ref performance and competence has taken a severe downturn. It's not surprising given the shortage, but anyone that says it hasn't really isn't paying attention. There are alot of bad officials at the high school level. Again, likely necessary, so I get why it's happening - but to say it hasn't deteriorated is not being honest.
I also agree with the arrogance of the refs. It's gotten worse. Again, perhaps that's an output of having to put up with too much crap, but that's also something that is obvious.