I'm really worried about your reading comprehension skills. I said the church hasn't changed in 60 years.... that was Vatican II. What has changed since then? How has the Church kept up with the times? Everything is a secret.... finances, personnel, conduct, why decision are made.
Apologies aren't worth anything. Actions speak louder than words. It's still happening. Our Bishop here covered up for a pervy priest and he wasn't punished at all, even though he violated all protocols put in place to prevent such things from happening. He actively moved this priest who had complaints regarding his conduct with children and moved him to the parish with the most kids. How about we figure out why these things are happening and actually try to make things right instead of deflecting and apologizing. How about the priests start calling out leadership for how poorly it was handled and continues to be handled. You think anyone cares about random priests apologies when nobody was actually held accountable? You think the congregations care that Archbishops and Bishops weren't even given slaps on the wrist after they knew what was going on and tried to cover it up? Nobody cares about empty half hearted apologies.
Every point you bring up, you are adding fuel to the fire as to why people are leaving the Church and you can't even see it. It's 2024, you can't just ask people to blindly follow you, and that you are morally superior, when your actions continuously prove otherwise.