So my little brother showed me this thread after asking me about my views of what is going on with DCHS athletics in general. And a couple of things jumped out at me. As in really ticked me off.
I am a former Rock athlete (girls soccer, XC and track) who has had a couple siblings and a couple more cousins play FB for the Rocks from 2008 through this season. I am also good friends with the second longest serving head coach at Coffman (who also is now the current coach with the most time coaching at Coffman and is the current coach with the most total experience as a coach and as a head coach). He absolutely refused to say anything directly other than that he respects both Stokes and Crabtree as coaches (see my comments in the next paragraph about leadership), but he did answer a bunch of my questions. So I feel like I am about as aware of the program as anyone not actually in the program or in the building can be.
So what ticked me off? The direct statements that earlier players were weak. And the direct statements that the previous coaches didn't know what they were doing. In particular with respect to the weight training of Coach Crager. It ticked me off because it is bad leadership, pure and simple. It is literally something they warned us not to do in officer training for the army. It is dismissive and doesn't generally earn you actual respect. And it makes people wary about how they will be treated if they get on your bad side. That is not how you inspire people to give you their best. It ticked me off because I knew (and was track teammates with) players from earlier in the Crabtree era and because he was talking about my family members. And it ticked me off because I know Coach Crager is actually very knowledgable in the weight room. Not just pretty good, but actually very knowledgeable about what is currently known about weight training. One of the things I confirmed with my coach friend mentioned above was his view that Coach Crager was very knowledgable and someone he asked for advice on weight training.
Why not just say "Here is the way I want to do things." Let people draw their own conclusions. The athletic director and principal knew that it was going to be a serious rebuilding year. Saying something like "They had a great team in 2020, with lots of seniors. Those seniors graduated and the current team doesn't have as much experience. So we will take some lumps, but we will learn. We will get stronger. We will get better." makes people recognize that not winning as much as in the past was not your fault without burning bridges and without making teenagers essentially pick between loyalty to their old coach and their current coach. Because to teenagers
Reading through this thread really, really pushed my buttons because so many people seem to be willfully missing the point that a lot of posters are making... most of the angst is not over whether or not Coach Stokes knows how to coach football, but whether or not it was kind of a jerk move to diss basically everyone involved with the program before he got there.
On the plus side, it feels oddly comforting as a health care professional to be ticked off at something that isn't "for the love of god would you please either get vaccinated or wear a damn mask, or both?" So, maybe, thanks???