cincifbfan
Well-known member
Bingo, and these things happen ALL THE TIME.Let me know the last time you sent food home with a coworker because his or her family did not have any. Also the last time you had to call CPS for a coworker that was being abused at home. Or bought a jacket or shoes because one of your coworkers could not afford them. Had to council a coworker who was thinking about suicide.
This was a big reason I had to leave...... it was taking a toll on me and my family..... I was so caught up in my students' issues and making sure that they all had what they needed, there were times it seemed like I wasn't giving enough to my own kids. Now, my wife and children never complained or said anything, it was me who felt like I wasn't vested enough at home as a father and husband, and I made the choice that my own children were far more important than everyone else's. I wanted to spend more time with them while they were young enough to want to still spend time with me.
There's a finite amount of give that any one person has, and I reached my limit.