I'm 40, I did 17 years of football in Kentucky starting when I was 21, took me until my 3rd year to be full time varsity. I obviously had way more issues with coaches behavior at the lower levels (3rd-8th grade) because the coaches "know" the Sunday rules. Loved officiating and absolutely love football at all levels, but I could 100% do without the idiot fans that stand on the fence around the field. It wasn't the start up cost, the travel (except a few schools that were plagued by traffic jams), the getting home from work at 4pm just to turn and leave by 4:15-4:30 to get to the school by around 5:30 for a 7pm start only to get home around 10:30, the upset wife because I was gone all weekend all season. It was 100% the idiot fans and the extreme increase of poor sportsmanship from the fans, players and coaches. The Sportsmanship seemed to nose dive in my last 5 years by all parties. It turned into the Jerry Springer show. Instead of calling a well disciplined well played game it was just constantly telling players to knock it off and tell coaches that "That was legal ten years ago, not now". I finally had enough after the 2018 season. I'll just take my kids to the local game and sit away from the moron fans who don't know their head from the ---hole when it comes to rules and/or enforcement of. Ky is even instituting using seniors in high school and newly graduated people (select Associations) like an apprenticeship. They'll work the U for all little league/Jr High games and coaches are to refrain from saying anything derogative to them or even questioning them. I know when I started, my second JV game I had a HC challenge me when I was walking off the field in a blowout. Being young a dumb It didn't bother me. By the end I would've just stopped officiating that second.
That being my rant, officials in all sports need a pay increase ands well overdue. The one's saying "You're going to screw over the kids" are the ones who won't even think about officials unless it's to berate them. So should John Doe say that to you just say "We are always looking for experienced officials you should come out with us", shuts them up pretty quick.