I am writing this review in my living room, in front of my father! I am visiting for his birthday! I am also wearing the Depends Maximun S/M Real Fit Briefs, and no one is the wiser! When I first got them, I was worried about noise that are usually accompanied by diapers/incontinence products, however, True Fit are just as quiet as regular briefs. I am a size 38 in the waist, and the S/M size fit just as we'll as regular briefs. I also toss and turn at nights, and the True Fit stay in place, provide superior protection! So, if your nervous about trying any type of incontinence products, I highly recommend you start here! I assure you, there will be no need to look any further.