They don't choose more expensive things, things just are more expensive. Life, groceries demand that my wife and I both work, and I make good money. I have zero debt except for my mortgage. But there is no way we could make it without my wife working. Feeding 3 boys makes our grocery bill stupid high.
Yea, have the internet educate your kids. That'll work out great. Where has that been tried and failed..... oh yeah, Covid and everyone said what a disaster that was. If it was so easy to educate kids through the internet, then there'd be a huge teacher surplus, not a shortage.
You know this isn't happening right? Are there some teachers that cross the line and give their opinions.... yes, there are people that are awful at their jobs in every profession. But teachers overwhelmingly are not indoctrinating kids, unless you count "be nice to each other" as indoctrination.