Is 1100pm a reasonable time for your 16 year old driver to return home?
Is 1100pm a reasonable time for your 16 year old driver to return home?
Thanks for the input guys. We (my son and I) had a pretty good argument last night. Usually on weekends it's midnight. but he was gone yesterday with his girlfriend's family from 10 in the morning until I called him at 10 that night and said just be home at 11. I wasn't sure about when the white death was supposed to roll in, and I just thought he'd been gone long enough.
We always wanted to know where our kids were, who they were with, and what they were doing. None of them seem to be damaged by the process. They may not have liked it at the time, but as they became adults, they realized why we did what we did.
For a girl yes. Boy is midnight. But whatever you are comfortable with, at least you are putting a curfew on them. My oldest son (22) doesn't have a curfew but he texts me to let me know if he isn't coming home or will be really late. My other son (18) usually strolls in around 12:30 and will also text me if he isn't coming home or will be later than usual. My daughter who just started driving is going to be on an 11:30 curfew on the weekends, 10:00 during the week. Obviously that can change depending on what she is doing. Late movies etc. parties are not an excuse to stay past curfew.
wut?
I think my curfews stopped around 16 or 17, I never did anything to break the trust of not having to report in. I'm sure if I ruined that, I would've probably had a curfew. I would normally send a text if my plans changed and I wasn't coming home. When I lived at home in my early 20s, I never had to justify anything I did, IDK why your 22 year old son is doing that.
How is what my son is doing any different than what you did? Sounds exactly the same.
Lol where is he justifying anything???
I guess it is called respect. I appreciate that he does let me know when to expect him or not to expect him, as a parent you worry about your kids no matter how old they get. I certainly am not demanding him to do so, but he does it anyway.
I bet your parents are proud that you hate them.
I was 16/17 under their care. He's 22. Big difference.
Lol you just said in your post you would text them if plans changed????
What are you wutting?
When I was 16/17.
Sounds like you and your oldest communicate. It's always nice to know that your kid's not dead in a ditch. It's also smart to give you a heads-up, in case you might think he was already in and hear him knocking around..... would hate to draw a bead on your own kid......
Right now tbg is searching old threads to figure out who I am. He mad.