In the conversation I had with the teammate’s family member, coincidentally, one of the teachers was also present. When I asked if the benching was related to poor grades or getting in trouble at school, the teacher simply replied, “No.”
I admit that I didn’t ask about the other possible reasons that you suggested, but I didn’t think to ask at the time.
I also didn’t speak to the coach about the situation because it didn’t regard me, my kid, or a team that I follow closely.
I only mentioned the other players quitting because you said good coaches won’t air players’ dirty laundry, but that doesn’t mean that other players, who were witnesses to the goings-on at practice, wouldn’t talk about or react to what transpired.
Agreed, it seemed the coach cared more about his own ego.
Not so sure if anyone involved in this unfortunate situation actually learned anything about accountability. Just sayin’ that it seemed like a blown opportunity for a coach to test his motivational skills, while also helping a neglected kid to succeed. ?