My father was a ref. My brother was a ref. We have many coaches in the family. All-State players...Blah Blah Blah. Just as with football, I have gotten to the point where I cannot stand going to soccer games. Nothing but complaining about the refs from people that do not know the rules. Do not understand advantage or even the simplest of things. Not just complaining, but all out screaming and wanting people fired from a gig that does not pay nearly well enough. A few years ago, my brother ignored the flag for an offside in a JV game with under 2 minutes left. It was close and he had a good eye on it too. Parents were going nuts! What kind of call is that? The game ended and 2 or 3 of the parents were out of the stands yelling at him. What kind of call was that? He ignored it for a few minutes and then with them still yelling, he said, "That's a 7 to nothing with under 2 minutes left in the game call." One of the parents got so enraged by that that she ran out to the field to "Get his name, so she could report him and make sure he didn't ref ever again." They won the game 7-0. He then, had to stay and work the sideline for the varsity game where he had to take their yelling for another hour and a half. The coached called him later in the week to let him know the call was correct when they were doing film study. Even if it wasn't. who cares, it was 7-0. My nieces and nephews will not become refs ever because of that. My children left soccer for Cross Country in HS. My daughter played both soccer and ran CC for one year and gave up soccer, Her true love, because of how terrible parents and teammates and competitors complained and lost if over reffing. I go to maybe one game a year now and quickly remember why I don't go to more. There are so many more things to worry about by the kids level of skill and play, that reffing rarely favors one team or the other.
Name calling and berating people out there that are doing something for the kids is unacceptable to me. If you get upset over a scrimmage, you don't need to go to soccer games anymore. Just stay at home. Watch the games and cheer for your team and stop complaining about reffing. I just saw where Strongsville had too many girls on the field for nearly 12 minutes. How does the coach not catch that? How did parents not catch that in the stands and get the info to the coach?. But after the fact, it's all on the refs.