I concur but it does not have to be. I think a lot of it stems from the club and travel coaches from my experience but I have seen school coaches bad as well.My son plays two sports at a pretty high level. He swims and plays baseball. By far, the high school baseball coaches have caused him the most grief about swimming and the club swimming coach used to castigate him about baseball. Basically, what I am saying is despite the best efforts of his parents, he was forced to choose a sport and he chose baseball. But the problem is the coaches.