First, let me say there are good qualified coaches at both the rec level and club level and there are some poor/unqualified coaches at both the rec level and club level.
Second, I grew up playing soccer (Gen X'er) and we were really the first US generation to grow up playing soccer at some level or another. None of the parents played soccer unless they came from South America or Europe (which was rare). Now Gen X'ers are the one with these kids and I would say a great deal of these parents did indeed play soccer growing up.
Lastly, there are tons of parent coaches coaching club soccer. There are probably more parent coaches than there are straight professional coaches in the greater Cincinnati area. Some again are good and others not so much.
What has happened in the last 10-15 years is that we have all of these soccer clubs that charge way more than rec or SAY but the bottom third teams for all of these clubs are usually no better than rec teams from 10-15 years ago. These parents are paying club prices for rec soccer.
It is not select when pretty much everyone makes a team with the club. Name a big named area club and I guarantee they will form a team for pretty much any skill level if enough are willing to pay for it. I see it all the time. Some dad has a decent rec team and decides "its time to move to X club" for better bla bla this and bla bla that. Same kids, same coach, new league, double or triple the cost and certainly more travel. Cooler uniforms though.
I agree with 99% of what you are saying but no one puts a gun to a parent / players head to move to a club instead of staying in Rec. Sometimes its because Rec has a rule that teams cant stay together and parents woudl prefer keeping a team together, or a they prefer their kid having the same coach instead of a new one each season. There are many reasons parent / players decide to move to club or to stay with rec and neither option is wrong. Its up to the parents / players to decide what is right for them. If you read the mission statement of most clubs many read like these:
- "To create an elite training and competition environment for boys and girls that strives to reach the highest level of success through first achieving excellence: providing a life enriching experience in an academy atmosphere that seeks to develop the complete player on and off the field of competition."
- XYZ Club seeks to provide children, teenagers, and young adults of Lakota, Lebanon, Mason, Sycamore, and all of the other neighboring communities throughout the Greater Cincinnati and southern Dayton areas a full range of opportunities to enjoy and develop in soccer, at levels appropriate for their age, ability and interest. It is recognized that different children play the game for different reasons and that Cincinnati United must therefore provide a variety of programs which serve the needs and interests of all children in the community.
- ABC Club- is a non-profit, competitive soccer organization in the greater Cincinnati area that develops players at all levels to reach their full potential in a challenging, safe environment. The quality and philosophy of our club builds character on and off the field through relationship-building and camaraderie.
Where in either statement does it say only the Elite player or top level player only? As my buddy Rohbino has taught me there is for all levels of play in select soccer and parents / players have a choice to play club or rec and what is wrong with that?