I think I can somewhat relate. Middle school I was socially awkward, lonely and just wanted a group of friends, so I fell in with a bad crowd. Made some bad decisions, but I realized that and stopped going along with whatever they did. As a result, I became a target for bullying by some of my former "friends" and it got so bad that I transferred to another school district (Green) for 9th grade. I was very sad, lonely, angry and didn't trust anybody for a year or so. It got better because I started doing things to get out of my comfort zone. I got a job, started talking to classmates more, going to games, started lifting weights and going to a gym. I gained a lot of confidence and although I didn't become the most popular kid in school, I have a group of friends and we genuinely care about each other. Growing up, I was extremely nonathletic and just a tall, skinny, quiet kid. I never played HS sports, but I busted my working out after school, got taller, and now I'm 6-4 and about 200 lbs. I met friends at work. I went to almost every football and basketball game to support my friends on the team. I also started putting more of an effort in at school, my grades improved and I also got more serious about my faith. I'm 19 now, but when I was 16, I thought I'd always be a loner. Trust me, his opportunities have not passed him by, I've been there, and things can get better.