Thanksgiving week over the years has meant a lot of things to people , obviously most of us have a lot to be thankful of. It's a time when you see your blessings a little more clearly. You get a few days off, you see the love and support of loved ones up closer as you see some only a few times a year if lucky . Your college aged , young adult aged { Or older adult aged} and High school aged and younger are at home , or with you if on the road .May be they are flying in from where they live to a central location and about 5-6 of your relatives offer to pick them up from the airport .
Not always a fun chore in some cities , but they offer because they want to , they want to connect with , help out and it's just what family does. Those little things are what you are grateful for. Gathering at a favorite watering hole to see old friends that you see only once in a while but you pick up where you left off every time. Despite distance or frequent physical contact it feels as familiar and comfortable as a well broken in pair of shoes or jeans. Old stories told year after year that always make you laugh . The friendly disagreements about parts of the story that is remembered differently . We ask about old friends and of curse a little gossip is always involved. It isn't mean spirited, it's just what people do. They catch up , some of that is to relay some news of some people's successes , and unfortunately sometimes its about old friends struggles .
Old friends and family are human , we struggle , succeed , are happy or sometimes not . There are divorces , re-marriages , sicknesses , recovery's , parents deaths , friends premature deaths , autism diagnosis , kids struggles , kids successes we beam with pride about , job issues we hear about, promotions , new business ventures , and the up's and downs connect us , because we all have them , and the comfort is in knowing you aren't alone in the struggles and the triumphs. You feel good for the success and want to help with the struggles . You feel empathy . You feel pride. You are connected to the past and as most here who read these spaces have that bond with old teammates and friends that you went through life's passages with . Family knows of your pain , joy , sadness and joy. That's why you can happily share the old story's that can include some not so happy times but with distance, a new perspective and some age aided wisdom .
This year of course the physical nature of the 'Normal " Thanksgiving week festivities are not possible or reasonable . Just the way it is. So the normal , get togethers with family and friends at the old hometown bar and grill or restaurants will have to be put on hold this holiday season . The large 20-30 person feasts will be doubly special next year. The HS football games are done now. The states that have Thanksgiving day games at 10.00 am. with large gatherings have been canceled . Dynastic Ohio teams have that tradition of early Turkey day practices . They can sleep in a bit this year . Airports will be busy , but manageable . Bars won't have their usual cash cow Wed before T-Day windfall. Those home from college mass gatherings at a few local hotspots will be shelved.
Meeting for a drink and an app with a few friends in a cozy crowded spot will not happen . We have gotten used to not thinking about where we may want to go for a quick bite of a long lazy brunch. No talk about wait times to be seated and how crowded a place will be. No pulling into a place and turning around because you know you aren't getting a seat at the bar and you don't want to stand .
This will be a year of staying home , having that drink that will be stronger because you are your own bartender and it will cost may be a buck instead of 7 bucks. Your Apps will be better than Happy hour prices and you get a clicker in your own hand instead of asking someone to please put on the game { Usually college hoops as it usually gets going now} you want . The sports king that is the NFL just goes on no matter what doesn't it? Smattering of fans , empty stadiums , piped in crowd noise , silence , COVID scratches , masked men on the sidelines , whatever. The show must go on . And it does . This part of the weekend remains basically unchanged .
Detroit will be on the screen early and coverage starts around Noon. The Lions are kind of like that imperfect side dish that is un-exciting and you aren't quite sure what it is. You have them on in the backround as you get ready to go somewhere else , or if you are hosting your Mom then eventually your wife gives orders of late store runs , getting chairs from the basement or may be rearranging some pieces of furniture . 'you better jump in the shower "!!
I for" some" reason think of Barry Sanders every T-Day . As mired in futility as the Lions have been , thank the football God's for giving us Barry Sanders for about a decade or so at 1230- 330 pm. on the last Thursday of November. How about them Cowboys ? Playing the Skins on T-Day this year ? OK not exactly the Doomsday defense , or the Triplets { Aikman , Irvin and Smith } nor the over the Hill gang{ George Allen's Skins teams of the early 70's } that if you remember well means you may be over the hill. Or the Joe Gibbs years of excellence , the Hogs, John Riggins , the 'Smurfs " But we will watch these two battle for a possible play-off berth in the NFC Least .
Least awful team wins? Then again I had a semi hot Minnesota team that couldn't beat the Boys at home . Dropped an interception late as old Ohio friend Andy Red rifle completed the next ball for a TD Damn he tried to be the Andy Dalton Cincy fans have always loved and cherished .
Pittsburgh - Baltimore ? Ravens were the better team everywhere but on the scoreboard but I'll take it , my guys took it , the points with Pittsburgh who won a close one in Baltimore a couple weeks ago . Baltimore is banged up in the traditional style on defense , but is getting COVIDED on offense as their top two RB's are virused out of this one . Line jumped from 2.5-3 to 4- 4.5 quickly .We got at Pitt -3. Make Lamar beat them ? Pittsburgh got 4 interceptions last week vs the immortal Jax QB Juice Luten . Or is it 'Rooting " Luten "? Luten Free, I have seen in a few circles . Pitt - 4 is still a decent play , but happy to get it at three when I was told that the RB's were BOTH out. Ravens are good enough to win , but aren't playing especially well on defense lately{ gashed by the run} and injuries and roster changes from last week are a big part of it .
Dallas is the knee jerk thought but will wait a bit longer . Detroit - Houston is simply an awful match-up and I don't see a path to getting this one on my board . Nice enough work from Goff and Brady to get us OVER 47.5 last night . As happens in many sports { especially boxing } young beat Old . Brady defies age as if he's Dick Clark's { Pre stroke } long lost son though and Jared isn't always consistent but both got it done . Thank$$ guys.
College game that sticks out a bit at this early part of the process is ND- 4.5 at North Carolina . Some transitive scores seem to indicate the number is accurate but if you look at the most recent results adn states of the teams ? ND looks like a 7-10 point winner here. NC giving up an average of 40 points a ballgame the last three games. Both teams are rested. They are 2-1 in those three games because they played Wake Duke and UVA . ND is in a different class . ND is scoring a lot of points as well lately , including a big number vs Clemson albeit with Clemson minus three very good players . I made the line ND - 7 . Not sure how Homefield helps right now . if you give Carolina the benefit of a three point HF advantage this means they have ND at a 7 .5 choice on a Neutral . I would have it more like 10 . Line was 4 at open . NC will probably be able to keep the back door ajar for much of the proceedings , but this might be the best material and talent ND has had under Kelly and he has intimated that idea as well. I Think he's right .