This is more of a general observation than a question. I watched the girls finals last weekend, the some of the boys tournament games, and I applaud the officials who do this job. It's a labor of love and certainly the pay isn't a reason to get into it.
My comment is the way boys and girls games are officiated and the behavior of the participants.
I know there are not differences in "boys" officials and "girls" officials, but man are they called completely different. It seems like the girls games are called very tight, with little contact, alot of ticky tack calls. While the boys games turn into free for alls and barn ball at times. Why is this?
The second part of my comment is many of the boys (and coaches) are whiners. They contest every call, palms up to the roof, question officials. I rarely if ever see or hear a girl question an officials call. I realize alot of this is what pro and college players do.
I'll address the second part of your comment first......
In my experience, there is no difference in boys and girls coaches and very little difference between boys and girls players. They both know how to complain, they both know how to whine, and they both know how to coach.
As far as the difference in officiating boys and girls games, particularly the "ticky tacky" foul perception.......
The game is different. Anyone who denies that is denying reality. In general, the boys know how to absorb and play through contact without it affecting their rhythm, speed, balance, or quickness. It's not the end all-meets all barometer for calling fouls, but it is something we consider.
Maybe a better way to describe this is the guys generally can get from point A to point B with contact than girls can get from point A to point B with contact. That deviation in the route has to be addressed with a foul call.