Poder is a nice guy, but even close to the level of Alexander at Walsh, Tyrell at Hoban, Gough in Hudson or Fox in Nordonia. I appreciate that he's made some strides with the youth program, but he's not a leader. I've seen kids around town that play for Stow. Anytime I ask how the season is going, they consistently answer "We Suck"...they aren't wrong.
There isn't belief that the program is moving in the right direction. The program needs more than a good coach. They need a great leader. Poder built a staff of inept or coaches with issues. The OC has been ushered out of a couple other programs because of his own personal demons. I don't begrudge someone for their past and appreciate the 3rd chance opportunity. But he's not a guy to help rebuild a program.
They have a couple coaches on staff that barely know football. One short bald coach posts ridiculous pictures on his Facebook page of him flexing or that delve into political crap. If you want to be a football coach for a public school and a leader, you can't post on FB like a teen girl taking selfies. I've heard from parents I know in the program that he's the laughing stock of the staff, but there are other coaches that have zero respect from the players as well.
So, to answer your question - blow it up, hire a new AD and new coaching staff. Then keep your fingers crossed that you chose correctly. Until then, continue to watch as all the good players choose to play at Walsh or Hoban. If I had a kid in the system, there is zero question that he wouldn't be a bulldog. You play HS ball once in your life. Play where you can win and be developed. Not where every week it's miserable.